tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380704217571602849.post1849452362800937277..comments2023-10-25T08:29:43.116-07:00Comments on Always A Mom: SPARE THE WHIP , SPOIL THE CHILD?Always a momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10666264649750762632noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380704217571602849.post-86547408880292056752009-08-16T06:46:15.928-07:002009-08-16T06:46:15.928-07:00I posted a comment last night and it seems to have...I posted a comment last night and it seems to have diappeared (before Niqi). ..<br />Spare, don't spoil, go with instinct. <br />There's no 1 solution, we may not be sure on what to do, but we do know what not to do. If my child still wants to hug me at the end of the day after some discipline, then I think I've done alright. If not wait to see if you get a good morning. I have to be versatile and try to outsmart the kids, but good old fashion nagging does have its' merits so I've learnt. Let's learn from each other.<br /><br />Pray, tomorrow is always a new day, we'll see more antics- new and old, please God keep us sane and ready.A Mother Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061214919572800420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380704217571602849.post-46116190906778197362009-08-15T13:10:10.552-07:002009-08-15T13:10:10.552-07:00We've used positive discipline methods - but o...We've used positive discipline methods - but once in a while have witheld toys or priveledges. This works for one child but not the other. Oftn just talking about how upset or disappointed we are has worked to change behaviours. Threats only work if you carry them through - if they don't believe the toys will be gone they won't. So make sure that you mean what you say too!Niqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10349149882737430405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380704217571602849.post-17103770276336152162009-08-15T05:03:42.724-07:002009-08-15T05:03:42.724-07:00This is an interesting post, becos it baffled me t...This is an interesting post, becos it baffled me too. Perhaps children today are simply smarter than we think. <br /><br />I pray for God's blessings everyday to keep me sane. We need more of that. Cheerz.Gaiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15069503364553279367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380704217571602849.post-14171857985698859282009-08-15T03:21:50.156-07:002009-08-15T03:21:50.156-07:00The other side of love is obedience. Your blog is ...The other side of love is obedience. Your blog is very nice. The images are very beautiful. God is Great. Best wishes. <br /><a href="http://www.thedynamicnature.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.thedynamicnature.com</a>Mahmood Syed Faheemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06625037159131436398noreply@blogger.com